Wednesday, June 17, 2009

My thoughts on Love

Love, such a little word with an enormous meaning. Used by many. But meant by few. You cant love someone one day and change you mind the next. Love is long suffering and patient. Love is supposed to last forever. It doesnt have a time limit. Love is supposed to conquer all. Love is supposed to see you through. So if you were in a relationship and neither one of you can stand each other anymore and you wouldnt help each other out in your time of need, even though you arent together, then that means neither of you really loved each other.So many of us say we love a person but as soon as things go wrong we turn our backs on them. We see each other in the street and wont even speak. Thats not love. That means at one time that person had some sort of benefit to you when you and when the good times wore out you dropped them, or vice versa.

Love.....So many people I have come across...and we have said 'I love you" but once the relationship was over it was like we never knew each other. There are only a few people in my life that I can say really love me and I love them back We may not talk all the time. But whenever we need each other we are always there for each other.

I wish there was a way to be sure if a person loved you or not. It would make all relationships a lot easier. But one thing to remember....they say a lot of times real love dont love you back. Meaning there will be times when you love the hell out of person (friend, family, lover) and they will just not feel the same. But its our job to love as Christ. So I say this...regardless of how others feel about you, love them hard. But at the same times, if you know you are no good, let it be known. Sometimes you have to love a person enough to let them go. But you can still be around when they need you.

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